When it comes down to it, the facts are, in today’s world, many people’s intimate relationship lives are not giving them the pleasure they seek. The reasons are complex and numerous of course, yet at the top of the list of fundamentals is the basic fact that our knowledge and understanding of how to live in a fantastic intimate relationship is minimal.
In this world, where education is seen as the key to having a great life the subject of intimate relationships seems to have been forgotten when it came to deciding the subjects on the curriculum. Yes, just because you are as sharp as a cat, or as wise as an owl, or even if you have a filing cabinet of a brain, intellect does not guarantee that you will experience love, sex and intimacy the way you really want to.
A quick look at the western world divorce stats reveals the true disaster that is overwhelming modern relationships. And if you really want a jolt, know that swapping relationships does not work either. The second marriage divorce stats are floating around the 75% failure rate! So why would that be? Could it be we jump ship to a new and exciting relationship primarily for better intimacy and sex? When in reality we are going from the fire to the frying pan! Because the real reason it all did not go the way we wanted in the first place is a blatant lack of knowledge and understanding of our own needs and the needs of our partner.
An even more scary thought is that many people find it easier to go to a lawyer than ask for professional help! Or they simply ask their friends and family for advice, when to be honest for the most part they know no better. So what is the answer to the demise of modern relationships? Well if you go to a real estate agent and ask ‘what’s the most important thing about a house', they would say, location, location, location. Play that against intimate relationships and you would say education, education, education.
So where do you start? Well the first thing to do is find out where you are now, what do you know, what are you great at and what are you doing less well. Also knowing clearly what you want is paramount. Then it’s simple, if you know where you are and you know where you want to go, you just need a plan of how to get from A to B.
The purpose of this article is to help you identify where you are now, below is a series of 10 questions, 10 for singles and 10 for those in a relationship. Just score yourself on a scale of 0 – 10 for each question and add up your score. If you don’t understand the question, best give yourself 0 for that question.
The scoring system is simple, if you score between 0 – 69 you are in danger of having bad relationship experiences until you take some action and get properly educated. If you score between 70 -89, you're doing ‘OK’, no doubt things could be better. Home in on your weak points and get professional help. If you score 90 or more, congratulations, seems you have it licked and are likely to be having a pretty good experience; however complacency is not to be overlooked, keep finding ways to experience the very best for you both.
Tony & Nicki Vee
http://www.tonyandnickivee.com/
www.youtube.com/tonyandnicki
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Love Sex & Intimacy Quiz – I’m Single
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Question 1.
I WOULD CURRENTLY SCORE MY OWN LIFE, ON A SCALE OF 0 – 10, AT A…?
Assess the ANSWER to this QUESTION by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘ITS CRAP’ and 10 being ‘ITS FANTASTIC’
Question 2.
I KNOW THAT I AM LIVING IN MY TRUE MALE/FEMALE ENERGY…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘NOT AT ALL’ and 10 being ‘COMPLETELY’
Question 3.
THE TRUTH IS I AM ADDICTED TO SEX OR RELATIONSHIPS…
Firstly CHOOSE ONE OF THESE (sex or relationships) and then give yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘ ITS TRUE I’M ADDICTED’ AND 10 BEING ‘NOT ADDICTED AT ALL’
Question 4.
I UNDERSTAND WHAT THE OPPOSITE SEX REALLY WANTS…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘NOT AT ALL’ and 10 being ‘COMPLETELY’
Question 5.
I CAN CLEARLY SEE HOW MY BEHAVIOUR NEGATIVELY AFFECTED MY PAST RELATIONSHIPS
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘CANNOT SEE IT AT ALL’ and 10 being ‘CAN SEE IT VERY CLEARLY’
Question 6.
I BELIEVE I KNOW HOW TO CONSISTENTLY EXPERIENCE A FULFILLING ‘SEX LIFE
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘VERY LOW LEVEL OF BELIEF’ and 10 being ‘VERY HIGH LEVEL OF BELIEF’
Question 7.
I’M ABLE TO ATTRACT THE RIGHT KIND OF MAN/WOMAN FOR ME…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘NEVER ABLE’ and 10 being ‘ALWAYS ABLE’
Question 8.
I FIND THE DATING GAME DIFFICULT AND FRAUGHT WITH PROBLEMS…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘ALWAYS’ and 10 being ‘NEVER’
Question 9.
I BELIEVE THAT I HAVE A COMPLETE UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT ‘LOVE’ REALLY MEANS…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘VERY LOW LEVEL OF BELIEF’ and 10 being ‘VERY HIGH LEVEL OF BELIEF’
Question 10.
HOW HAVE YOUR PAST RELATIONSHIPS ENDED?
Assess the ANSWER to this QUESTION by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘VERY PAINFULLY’ and 10 being ‘AMICABLY’
What's Your Total Score
Danger 0 - 69 Caution 70 - 89 Doing Great 90+
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Love Sex & Intimacy Quiz - I’m In A Relationship
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Question 1.
I WOULD CURRENTLY SCORE MY OWN LIFE, ON A SCALE OF 0 – 10, AT A…?
Assess the ANSWER to this QUESTION by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘ITS CRAP’ and 10 being ‘ITS FANTASTIC’
Question 2.
I KNOW THAT I AM LIVING IN MY TRUE MALE/FEMALE ENERGY
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘NOT AT ALL’ and 10 being ‘COMPLETELY’
Question 3.
I THINK ABOUT LEAVING THIS RELATIONSHIP…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘CONSTANTLY’ and 10 being ‘NEVER’
Question 4.
I UNDERSTAND WHAT THE OPPOSITE SEX REALLY WANTS…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘NOT AT ALL’ and 10 being ‘COMPLETELY’
Question 5.
HOW MUCH DO YOU ARGUE?
Assess the ANSWER to this QUESTION by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘ALL THE TIME’ and 10 being ‘NEVER’
Question 6.
I CAN CLEARLY SEE HOW MY BEHAVIOUR NEGATIVELY AFFECTS MY RELATIONSHIP….
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘CANNOT SEE IT AT ALL’ and 10 being ‘CAN SEE IT VERY CLEARLY’
Question 7.
THE TRUTH IS WE LEAD SEPARATE LIVES AND DON’T SPEND QUALITY TIME TOGETHER …
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘TOTALLY TRUE’ and 10 being ‘NOT TRUE AT ALL’
Question 8.
I BELIEVE I KNOW HOW TO CONSISTENTLY EXPERIENCE A FULFILLING ‘SEX LIFE’…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘VERY LOW LEVEL OF BELIEF’ and 10 being ‘VERY HIGH LEVEL OF BELIEF’
Question 9.
I HAVE BEEN UNFAITHFUL (PHYSICALLY OR EMOTIONALLY)…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘MANY TIMES’ and 10 being ‘NEVER’
Question 10.
I BELIEVE THAT I HAVE A COMPLETE UNDERSTANDING OF WHAT ‘LOVE’ REALLY MEANS…
Assess the LEVEL OF TRUTH OF THIS STATEMENT by giving yourself a score between 0 and 10, 0 being ‘VERY LOW LEVEL OF BELIEF’ and 10 being ‘VERY HIGH LEVEL OF BELIEF’
What's Your Total Score
Danger 0 - 69 Caution 70 - 89 Doing Great 90+
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If you are looking for a way to get you score higher please contact us at
tnv@tonyandnickivee.com
www.tonyandnickivee.com
www.youtube.com/tonyandnicki
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