How To Be The Perfect Woman In Bed & Have Him Do What You Want!

So here's the thing - most women that come to me for help on their sex lives are talking about all the things he doesn't do. So why doesn't he do what you want?

There are probably 3 good reasons:-

• He doesn't feel like it - and that could be because of the way you talk to him inside and outside the bedroom.
• You are 'doing things' that make it difficult for him to be attracted to you - This most commonly is about you 'taking the lead'.
• He doesn't feel good about himself - this may be nothing to do with you but/and it could be!

So here are the Top 10 Don'ts for a woman - which if you stop doing them I can guarantee you will get the results you want.

Don't decide when to have sex - just get on with your life and wait..

Don't take the lead - this may seem alien to you but leading doesn't work..

Don't stay in your head - stop thinking and you will feel what he does to you..

Don't nag him about sex - stop questioning about no sex or too much sex etc..

Don't try and turn him on - if you do it will all be over quick

Don't focus on your orgasm - you may as well have an orgasm on your own

Don't visualise other men - he will be able to tell

Don't tell him what to do - he will decide what works, you just need to let him

Don't confuse sex with love - him having sex with you is not what you want

Don't try to control everything - trust your man or get out of the relationship

So how many of those don'ts do you do? Tell yourself the truth - every woman and man wants an experience in the bedroom that is loving and giving not what we call 'sexual athletics'

So the Do's:-

Do give your man time and space to make decisions for you both, in life and in the bedroom

Do tell him what you want intimately in a non demanding way

Do get yourself in a calm, loving state so that your man will be drawn to make love to you

Do relax and let him lead you in the bedroom and during sex

Do keep quiet and still so that he can guide you to a healthy beautiful orgasm

Do tell him how much you love what he does, again inside and outside the bedroom

Do look up to him, literally, you being on top is a bad sign!

Do be feminine; this is soft, gentle, allowing and trusting

Do let go, being tense will give you a sexual experience instead of a loving one

Do keep your attention on your man, not the kids, not the shopping or work!

So there you go, in my own experience I did all the don'ts in my former relationships and the results I got were either no sex or lots of unhealthy sex which I did not feel good about. Since being with Tony I have learnt exactly what works for me and him and have done the Do's most of the time which has given us a beautiful and long lasting making love life!

Do you want more information? Tony & I are covering the Do's and Don'ts for men and women in more detail over the next 4 TNTV videos. See us now on www.youtube.com/tonyandnicki

Or if you want to talk to us personally and privately email us on tnv@tonyandnickivee.com

Love, Nicki Vee x