We all want a great experience in the bedroom, don't we?! And the truth is no one taught us the 'How'! It seems we were left to our own devises to work it all out and...that's so often not a good way to learn any subject let alone love, sex and intimacy. No wonder the divorce rate is so high and no wonder the amount of infidelity is sky high.
The first thing, if you really want to get this area of your life to be the best it can be, is to score yourself! Yes, what's the truth, how good are you in the bedroom? Use a scale from 0 - 10. If you score yourself 0 this means you believe you are totally crap in bed and if you score yourself 10, you believe you are masterful.
So what did you score?
Now here's the thing, being masterful in bed would start by understanding a woman’s, and in particular your woman’s, needs completely. Because being fantastic in bed is not all about you, it's about a shared experience. Now it goes without saying all men want to be fantastic in bed, so here is a list of do's and don'ts to make it real simple to get you started.
The Don't Evers That Turn Women Off...
Don't try to have sex just because you need it
Don't plead for or ask permission for sex
Don't focus only on what you want
Don't focus on your own orgasm
Don't have it all over in 3 minutes
Don't just make it a sexual experience
Don't just turn over and go to sleep afterwards
Don't just leave it all to her
Don't visualise other women
Don't just do it occasionally
Do these and you woman will want more...
Do take control of time, place and environment
Do be romantic, kind, and caring towards her
Do be the leader, the real man she wants
Do kiss her - a lot!
Do talk to her, tell her everything you love about her
Do take your time
Do focus on her all the time
Do help her to relax and let go
Do remain none sexual for best results
Do synchronise your breathing
Use the above lists like a check list, tick which of the 'Don't list' you do and which on the 'Do's list' you do, this will give you a real idea of the score you should be giving yourself.
Now utilise the 'Do list' to start to change things around and get better results. And if you get expert in all of the ten Do's and forget all of the 10 Don'ts, it will be akin in bed to 'lighting the touch paper and standing back to watch the fireworks'....
Most of all make it fun....
Happy Lovemaking
Tony Vee
PS. If you need help in your intimate life, man or woman, you know where to come, no pun intended, we are here to help! Couples that have been struggling with little or no intimacy have, whilst learning our philosophy, ended up like young lovers again.
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