Friday, 31 October 2008

How To Romance A Woman

The biggest thing men say when they are desperately trying to make intimate relationships work is, 'How Do I Make A Woman Happy?!'

They say,'I've tried everything; What do they really want?!'

Well, here's the answer guys and it may surprise you...


1.They want you to take charge.

2.They want you to make the decisions.

3.They want you to know what a woman wants at her core.

4.They want you to know their individual needs.

So what has this got to do with ROMANCE?

Everything...

1. & 2.
So the first 2 are easy, take charge and make decisions, we've been saying that to you practically every week and we don't have to remind you what happens if you don't do we? Ok, yes what happens is woman plays up in her own unique way. That may be taking control herself, moaning, telling you what to do, or running her addictions whatever those are, etc etc...

3.
Ok, so the next biggy, what does she really want, ok lets keep it real simple, to feel safe and secure, looked after and cherished. This can be anything from walking road side on the pavement to dealing with an angry landlord. If you want your woman to be feminine and vunerable you need to protect her from the 'dragons' as we would say. And cherished, what does that look like? If you're in a relationship do the man's stuff, handle the house, garden and car maintenance, decide when you're going on that trip, solve the kids issues at school, create a fantastic surprise for her. If you're single, tell her where you're taking her and what time you're picking her up, make sure she's warm enough, take her a gift that you know she loves and you hold the tickets!

4.
And finally, find out what her individual needs are. This is as simple as remembering what film she wanted to see and what her interests are. Does she talk about art, football or fashion? All women love a surprise, even if she hates the food she is so much happier that you chose the restaurant rather than asking her to book it. All women love chocolate, flowers, cards and pretty things for their home! And if she says she doesn't, she's either lying or you have done such a shit job of looking after this woman that she's testing the hell out of you! And, if you give into it you've failed the test. The solution is to go back to point 1 & 2, take charge and make the decisions, it will always work if you do it with enough certainty about you.

Thats it, how to romance a woman. Sound like hard work guys? Well yes it requires some effort but the rewards are incredible.

Imagine spending the evening or life with a happy woman who looks up to you, shares her love with you and is looking to find out what makes you feel fantastic.

So girls, for How To Make A Man Feel Fantastic - see next weeks TNTV & Blog.

Need more information, education and solutions on this or any intimate relationship issue? go to http://www.intimaterealtionships.tv/

Love, Nicki Vee x

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