How To Make Him Crazy About You - Your Blog Coach x

Ok this was one of the questions that came into our website last week -

How do I make him crazy about me?

You know what, that question is so common; 2 women coaching clients this week also described behaviour from men as 'disinterested', 'not committed' or just 'he doesn't seem into me'.

So here's the quick answer:-

There are 2 things that may be causing this.

One is that he actually isn't interested. Maybe he doesn't want to behave in a way that he would if he was crazy about you, maybe he doesn't want to be with you, maybe he doesn't want to ravish you or look after you and treat you like a princess. If honestly that is the case - move on!

The second reason could be that you are not behaving in a way that gives him the opportunity to act the way you would like. If a man is crazy about you he will spontaniously ask you out, organize things, arrange time together, ask you to move in with him, marry you and have babies with you (if thats humanly posssible!). Now if you are doing all the doing, making all the running, taking charge and telling him what to do he will definitely move away from you and do the opposite. The other habit that women run is to be needy and so a 'bit of a nightmare' as men would put it. Both of these patterns will cause him to look elsewhere for something to meet his needs. This could be a different woman but it also could be work, sport, television or the computer.

So whats the truth?

Has he ever really acted as if he's crazy about you? If so ask yourself the question how have I behaved to change things? If the answer is no he has never acted that way my hallucination is that, if you are in a relationship with him, that it is a relationship of convenience. Those kind of relationships will never meet either of your real needs, they tend to just meet the 'practical needs'. And why would you settle for that?

Last point, maybe you are not 'crazy about you' either? If you are negative, unhappy, stressed or just plain 'in a funk', no man is going to be 'crazy about you'.

There is no great red blooded, masculine man out there who wants to be with a woman that doesn't love life and feel good about herself!

So now you know what you need to do! And have I once mentioned what to wear or what to say? No!

Healthy happy, masculine men go crazy for healthy, happy, feminine women...

Go figure as they say in the states!

Let me know what you think about this....

Love, Nicki Vee x

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