Just enough to get by… Inside and outside the bedroom! Men or women who have just enough money to get by are normally hooked on security, safety and certainty. They have probably been bought up to think that as long as they make sure they are safe financially that they will be happy. How wrong can they be?
If this is you, this belief and pattern of behavior has probably caused you to attract someone who thinks the same and when the financials are ‘just enough’ you both expect to be happy but you’re not.
Why is that? Because the doubt, worry, boredom and anxiousness about money, or about losing the job, or about the business failing, or the house not selling, or the investment falling will keep a man’s mind on everything but romance and a woman’s mind just full!
Hence it affects the bedroom too! Life and sex often becomes boring because both of you are thinking about everything else, not each other. Even in bed women will be thinking about the kids, the mortgage payments, the car needing servicing... everything apart from her man and his physical needs.
So a solution for both of you is togetherness time when you don't think about the financials and you don’t talk about how you are going to get safe financially long term.
Sharing what is fabulous for you both (Tony and I call it our ‘magic moments’) and what you are grateful for, and what you love about each other the most, will move you into a state where romance, love making and connection are at their highest.
Just enough to get by makes me think of that great expression: Your problems are somebody else’s dreams – think about it. Put’s everything into perspective doesn’t it?
Singles only have to consider one thing: What you give out you get back, what you focus on is what you get…so whatever is going on in your head will affect what or who you attract. If you are in ‘getting by mode’ you are probably not attractive to the opposite sex because everyone is looking for someone who is ‘having a great life’, including you!
Practice gratitude, imagine a rosy future or as the song says, ‘always look on the bright side of life’!
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