Are you In Debt, on the brink of financial bankruptcy or just plain fed up with working to just make ends meet? Man or woman, this kind of pressure and stress is most definitely affecting your lovelife!
Men do you notice that when you have money problems that you are either off sex completely or addicted to it? If it’s the former, ‘off sex’, that is probably because you are down, working all the time and stressing to ‘get money’ so the last thing you seem to be able to do is show up in a great way to romance a woman. If on the other hand you seem addicted to sex that is probably because you don’t feel good about yourself as a man (because you are not providing for yourself or a woman the kind of life you want to) and the only time you feel good is when you orgasm. The third alternative is that you try and please a woman by getting her to orgasm a lot giving you a feeling of being successful at something. None of these is good for women.
If you’re single and looking to be in a relationship notice how healthy women are not attracted to you. This is because they can tell that you are depressed about your situation and so will move away from you. Unhealthy women (either in debt too or have money and want to mother you or fix your problems) may be attracted to you but this is unlikely to lead to a great relationship because it is way out of balance. If you are in a relationship being down and either moody or detached or talking about your problems to your partner is a recipe for disconnection inside and outside of the bedroom.
So of course, as we said before, the solution is to get things sorted out. And you might ask, HOW? Most men in this situation say ‘Well, unless I get money in the bank how can I be in a good place and have a great relationship with a fantastic woman?
Here’s how… You need to access your core masculinity. You see, it's never about £’s (or €’s or $’s!) it’s about how you show up as a man. Firstly you might want to answer these questions:
• Are you able to see the light at the end of the tunnel and, if not, what would it look like?
• Have you had help from a man that has handled this part of his life?
• Are you living the best life you can in the circumstances or are you fed up and turning to addictions such as alcohol, smoking, food, drugs, television, gambling or sex?
• How are you managing your life? Do you have your financial situation clearly recorded and organised?
• How would you handle your situation if you focused on nothing else?
It’s a fact; it's not the size of your bank account that matters, you could still be in debt but in the process of getting everything handled, be showing up in a great way and be able to have a positive effect on a woman.
Now, women who are in debt and struggling financially are most likely to be off sex and/or not having much success in intimate relationships. If you are, however, reacting to money issues by looking to sex to make you feel better it is probably because you are acting more like a man in all areas of life. Women who are depressed, stressed or worried all the time repel men!
A single woman needs to do nothing else but find a way to be good with her situation whatever it is. A woman’s core feminine needs are for good relationships so to focus negatively on money will only serve to give you a life that will not meet your core needs. Put simply, a happy woman is the most attractive thing to a man and it doesn’t matter how well she is handling her finances as long as she is happy. Can you see the difference between men and women? Men need to be ‘handling things’ women need to be ‘accepting things’.
If you are a woman in a relationship it is also going to be about your reaction to your financial situation. If you have your own money the solution is definitely to be good with where you are but how would it be that the solution is to give your partner ‘the problem’? I can almost hear the gasps of ‘oh my god, I couldn’t!’ Yes even if he is also not in a good place financially himself, he is a man and men respond to solving problems. If you have joint money issues you must leave him to sort it all out! If you nag, he feels worse, if you try and help him, he feels worse, if you find a solution, he feels terrible! Get the message?
Now to be honest there are men out there who would go to pieces if either their girlfriend gave them a financial problem to solve or their partner stopped taking responsibility for the money but that should not stop you asking for help or letting go of the problem. You may be pleasantly surprised and if not you may want to ask the question: Is this relationship meeting my needs?
So girls, all this will definitely affect your lovelife. Letting go, asking for help, stopping worrying, being happy etc will all have a magical affect on who you attract if you’re single, and how connected you are if you’re attached.
So man or woman, single or attached, if you are having money problems you need to look seriously at the solutions offered in this Blog and on our Money & Sex Videos on TNTV.
And we are seriously suggesting our Home Study Course which will help you handle all areas of your life which in turn will affect your relationships and your bank account of course!
So, any questions for Tony or I, email us on tnv@tonyandnickivee.com
Love, Nicki Vee x
www.tonyandnickivee.com
Tuesday, 26 August 2008
Monday, 18 August 2008
Relationship Advice : Sex & Money Challenges
So here's the thing - Money problems = Sex problems
And it doesn't matter how much you've got!
You might be In Debt and on the brink of financial bankruptcy, getting just about enough to get by or you may have loads of money - whatever your situation it could seriously be affecting your lovelife!
Men who have little or no money are often either completely off sex because they are so worried about their situation or they are addicted to sex to get a quick, if not fulfilling high, that makes them feel good, just for a second or two. A healthy woman is never going to be attracted to a man who has not got his 'act together' financially but unhealthy women (who have their lives sorted) are often looking for a man to 'look after' so that they can mother or fix his problems. So of course the solution is to get things sorted out. Using masculine energy, certainty about yourself and finding practical solutions that work will get you quickly into the kind of energy that will attract abundance and a healthy woman. It’s a fact, it's not the size of your bank account that matters, you could still be in debt but getting everything handled, and be very attractive to Mrs. Right.
Women who are in debt and struggling financially usually get themselves into a low energy state of despair. Some may show a 'brave face' but your negativity about your lot is bound to put a good man off you. Men will still have sex with you but not the right man (or a man in good energy) and you may just be feeding off the crumbs of a relationship or still seeing an old flame. Men can feel your neediness and so are not attracted to it. The solution for you is to be completely ok with whatever your present situation is. You see he may come along and sweep you off your feet or help you out as long as you don't seem to be needy of that. Your 'brave face' needs to be a 'happy face' too or your energy will turn him off.
Men or women who have just enough money to get by are normally hooked on security. This is probably going to show up in the bedroom as 'just having enough to get by' too! Why is that? Because the doubt, worry and anxiousness about losing the job, the business failing, the house not selling, the investment falling will keep a man’s mind on everything but romance. Sex often becomes boring because both of you are thinking about everything else, not each other. Most commonly women are worried about the kids, the mortgage payments, the car needing servicing... everything apart from her man and his physical needs. So a solution for both of you is togetherness time when you don't talk about how you are going to be safe financially long term.
Men who seem to 'have it all' are often too busy either making more money or holding onto what they've got to put quality time into their relationship. They often find it easy to get sex as either a single of attached man but it’s all too easy just like earning money. What he needs to learn about is LOVE. The kind of sexual highs he gets from sex or money will be nothing to what he could have if he learnt to really 'love'.
Women who have it all are like a magnet to men who haven't! She shows up as successful at everything she does but sleeps alone at night even if her bed is full! She is so 'in charge' of her life and can be 'in charge' of him too inside and outside of the bedroom that she actually repels healthy men. You see he wants at least to feel that he can make you happy by giving you something that you didn't get yourself. The solution is to learn about letting go, trust and true femininity. Letting a man lead you in any circumstance is a good first step. Trust him to do something for you that you would normally do yourself! The ultimate let go is to let him make all the decisions in bed too!
So yes money and sex are interdependent, a healthy approach to money will give you a healthy lovelife too.
To watch Sex & Money Challenges #1 YouTube, Yahoo, MySpace, Metacafe, Google, DailyMotion, Veoh, Sclipo and Howcast
Or View from Tony & Nicki's Homepage at http://www.tonyandnickivee.com/
Nicki Vee
And it doesn't matter how much you've got!
You might be In Debt and on the brink of financial bankruptcy, getting just about enough to get by or you may have loads of money - whatever your situation it could seriously be affecting your lovelife!
Men who have little or no money are often either completely off sex because they are so worried about their situation or they are addicted to sex to get a quick, if not fulfilling high, that makes them feel good, just for a second or two. A healthy woman is never going to be attracted to a man who has not got his 'act together' financially but unhealthy women (who have their lives sorted) are often looking for a man to 'look after' so that they can mother or fix his problems. So of course the solution is to get things sorted out. Using masculine energy, certainty about yourself and finding practical solutions that work will get you quickly into the kind of energy that will attract abundance and a healthy woman. It’s a fact, it's not the size of your bank account that matters, you could still be in debt but getting everything handled, and be very attractive to Mrs. Right.
Women who are in debt and struggling financially usually get themselves into a low energy state of despair. Some may show a 'brave face' but your negativity about your lot is bound to put a good man off you. Men will still have sex with you but not the right man (or a man in good energy) and you may just be feeding off the crumbs of a relationship or still seeing an old flame. Men can feel your neediness and so are not attracted to it. The solution for you is to be completely ok with whatever your present situation is. You see he may come along and sweep you off your feet or help you out as long as you don't seem to be needy of that. Your 'brave face' needs to be a 'happy face' too or your energy will turn him off.
Men or women who have just enough money to get by are normally hooked on security. This is probably going to show up in the bedroom as 'just having enough to get by' too! Why is that? Because the doubt, worry and anxiousness about losing the job, the business failing, the house not selling, the investment falling will keep a man’s mind on everything but romance. Sex often becomes boring because both of you are thinking about everything else, not each other. Most commonly women are worried about the kids, the mortgage payments, the car needing servicing... everything apart from her man and his physical needs. So a solution for both of you is togetherness time when you don't talk about how you are going to be safe financially long term.
Men who seem to 'have it all' are often too busy either making more money or holding onto what they've got to put quality time into their relationship. They often find it easy to get sex as either a single of attached man but it’s all too easy just like earning money. What he needs to learn about is LOVE. The kind of sexual highs he gets from sex or money will be nothing to what he could have if he learnt to really 'love'.
Women who have it all are like a magnet to men who haven't! She shows up as successful at everything she does but sleeps alone at night even if her bed is full! She is so 'in charge' of her life and can be 'in charge' of him too inside and outside of the bedroom that she actually repels healthy men. You see he wants at least to feel that he can make you happy by giving you something that you didn't get yourself. The solution is to learn about letting go, trust and true femininity. Letting a man lead you in any circumstance is a good first step. Trust him to do something for you that you would normally do yourself! The ultimate let go is to let him make all the decisions in bed too!
So yes money and sex are interdependent, a healthy approach to money will give you a healthy lovelife too.
To watch Sex & Money Challenges #1 YouTube, Yahoo, MySpace, Metacafe, Google, DailyMotion, Veoh, Sclipo and Howcast
Or View from Tony & Nicki's Homepage at http://www.tonyandnickivee.com/
Nicki Vee
Friday, 8 August 2008
Sex Chat #4 How To Spot A Princess
This Unique Information is invaluable for Men & Women.
This Unique Information is invaluable whether you are Single or Attached.
This Unique Information is invaluable to you as it will guarantee you a great love, sex & intimate life.
So what is this information that is so crucial? In this Blog (and on our current TNTV) we are going to give you the top 5 ways of spotting whether a woman is 'a princess'.
Now before you start to panic, guys thinking, what if I am not with one or women thinking, what if I'm not one, let me explain that any behaviour is liable to be coming from habit or programming (what she's been taught) or fear and so can be changed at any time just by being aware of it.
1. A Princess shows up in her unique femininity and she uses feminine body language and tonality. This looks like soft, relaxed, flowing body movements, a smile, no piercing eye contact and a gentle handshake. She speaks in a calm way and has a light, tender tone of voice. She is happy to let go of control to you and is not focused or driven towards ambitious goals. Her attention is more focused on you and she speaks with trust about her needs, her life and her dreams.
2. A Princess asks men questions and is interested in others. This is the opposite of a woman (see 'a bit of a nightmare') who is always focused on herself and her problems. She asks questions in a non challenging or competitive way. They are questions that give you the opportunity to share your thoughts and beliefs and her the opportunity to know and understand you more. With men, in particular, she acknowledges his achievements without comparing to hers. She shows appreciation for how a man takes care of her needs in a non demanding way. She talks about the kind of characteristics that she admires in him and, if in intimacy with this man, what she adores about him the most. When asked for what she needs a princess tells a man what she loves and lets him provide it!
3. A Princess loves and respects her own body. Whilst considering others a princess creates her own time to pamper and take care of herself. She is aware of the effects of what she eats and how she moves on her energy and so takes daily care of her body. She, in most cases, nurtures herself with healthy food and drinks except, maybe, for the odd glass of wine and of course chocolate! A princess respects her body and so she is not one to indulge addictively (smoking, drinking, food) and she makes physically and emotionally healthy decisions as to when to share a bed with a man. She also is not obsessed with being in a relationship, she would rather wait for Mr. Right or decide against staying in a dysfunctional relationship.
4. A Princess’s life flows with radiant happiness. She loves what she does and she does what she loves. She is trusting of whatever the universe deals her. So if her company closes down she sees it as a good thing! Whether in a job or in business her days flow effortlessly and she has balance in the way she manages her time and work. You never see a princess running (unless exercising!) rushing, stressed and in a tiz. She has very healthy, positive beliefs and is not driven by security and money.
5. A Princess loves the role of ‘the princess’. She loves and wants to be the supporter/nuturer/carer to your hunter/provider/protector. She yearns to be the soft feminine to your strong masculine. She appears, as if magically, to know intuitively how to be the yang to your ying. She is happy and comfortable as the follower to your leader. She understands and desires to fully surrender to her rock, her king, her knight in shining armour.
Nicki Vee
http://www.tonyandnickivee.com/
You can view the video, 'How To Spot A Princess' on any of our video channels : YouTube, Yahoo, MySpace, Metacafe, Google, Revver, DailyMotion, Sclipo and Howcast
This Unique Information is invaluable whether you are Single or Attached.
This Unique Information is invaluable to you as it will guarantee you a great love, sex & intimate life.
So what is this information that is so crucial? In this Blog (and on our current TNTV) we are going to give you the top 5 ways of spotting whether a woman is 'a princess'.
Now before you start to panic, guys thinking, what if I am not with one or women thinking, what if I'm not one, let me explain that any behaviour is liable to be coming from habit or programming (what she's been taught) or fear and so can be changed at any time just by being aware of it.
1. A Princess shows up in her unique femininity and she uses feminine body language and tonality. This looks like soft, relaxed, flowing body movements, a smile, no piercing eye contact and a gentle handshake. She speaks in a calm way and has a light, tender tone of voice. She is happy to let go of control to you and is not focused or driven towards ambitious goals. Her attention is more focused on you and she speaks with trust about her needs, her life and her dreams.
2. A Princess asks men questions and is interested in others. This is the opposite of a woman (see 'a bit of a nightmare') who is always focused on herself and her problems. She asks questions in a non challenging or competitive way. They are questions that give you the opportunity to share your thoughts and beliefs and her the opportunity to know and understand you more. With men, in particular, she acknowledges his achievements without comparing to hers. She shows appreciation for how a man takes care of her needs in a non demanding way. She talks about the kind of characteristics that she admires in him and, if in intimacy with this man, what she adores about him the most. When asked for what she needs a princess tells a man what she loves and lets him provide it!
3. A Princess loves and respects her own body. Whilst considering others a princess creates her own time to pamper and take care of herself. She is aware of the effects of what she eats and how she moves on her energy and so takes daily care of her body. She, in most cases, nurtures herself with healthy food and drinks except, maybe, for the odd glass of wine and of course chocolate! A princess respects her body and so she is not one to indulge addictively (smoking, drinking, food) and she makes physically and emotionally healthy decisions as to when to share a bed with a man. She also is not obsessed with being in a relationship, she would rather wait for Mr. Right or decide against staying in a dysfunctional relationship.
4. A Princess’s life flows with radiant happiness. She loves what she does and she does what she loves. She is trusting of whatever the universe deals her. So if her company closes down she sees it as a good thing! Whether in a job or in business her days flow effortlessly and she has balance in the way she manages her time and work. You never see a princess running (unless exercising!) rushing, stressed and in a tiz. She has very healthy, positive beliefs and is not driven by security and money.
5. A Princess loves the role of ‘the princess’. She loves and wants to be the supporter/nuturer/carer to your hunter/provider/protector. She yearns to be the soft feminine to your strong masculine. She appears, as if magically, to know intuitively how to be the yang to your ying. She is happy and comfortable as the follower to your leader. She understands and desires to fully surrender to her rock, her king, her knight in shining armour.
Nicki Vee
http://www.tonyandnickivee.com/
You can view the video, 'How To Spot A Princess' on any of our video channels : YouTube, Yahoo, MySpace, Metacafe, Google, Revver, DailyMotion, Sclipo and Howcast
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