Wednesday, 28 May 2008

On The Edge - A Marriage Breaking Down!

Just had an amazing chat with a guy whose wife wants to end their long marriage, they have three children and he did not know the best way to handle it. Luckily he found his way to one of our coaches who put him onto us and he got his hands on our free stuff.

His wife on the other hand had counselling and felt that this was not helping her situation and in many ways was making it worse. Now if we had a ‘£’ for every time we heard that we would be rich!

Interestingly after watching our DVD’s he started to realise the patterns he was running that were not working with her, i.e. pleasing and accommodating, in effect giving up his power.

Having now adapted his behaviour towards his wife utilising our philosophy, things are starting to get better between them and he is moving things forward to the point where he is prepared to get them both to our Austrian Relationship Retreat so they can really start to get things sorted. Well done that man...

I was just talking to Nicki saying how sad it is that so many people give up and get divorced when clearly there is a way we can help them sort it all out!

Tony Vee

http://www.tonyandnickivee.com/

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi Tony & Nikki,
i seem to meet people more frequently than i can believe that have had, or are having, a long period of their life with someone that is married to someone else....
do you have advice for them, i think my advice has run out !! one is a great friend who just cant let go of this married lady with the hope that one day she will leave....
thx T&N x

Tony and Nicki Vee said...

Hi Fantastic Life!

Thank you for your comment and yes sadly it is very common for people to be searching for love with someone who is not in fact 'available' to really commit. I have actually had experience of this personally and of course with many clients. I will write an article blog on this in the next few days.

Lots of love, Nicki Vee x