Whose 1st His Work Or You? Girls Its Up To You! - Your Blog Coach x

Tony wrote and asked men a question... what should men put first his work or his woman? Well I'm now writing to the girls....

So if you are a woman in a relationship or a woman thinking about being in a relationship here's what you need to know!

A man, and by that I mean a real man, will find time to focus on both his work and his woman... BUT if your attention is on everything else, the kids, your work, the television, your mother, being successful etc even a real man will get tired of finding his attention ignored or even worse rejected.

So if you are feeling that you're not getting the attention you want either from your long term partner or the guy you're dating....here's what you need to do!

Give him the attention He wants...AND this will definitely look and feel different to the type of attention you want.

Just like Tony coaches men to understand what women want, we need to do the same...so here's the top 5 things all men want...

• Peace and quiet!! I love the bit in Chris Rock's video where he says men just want to get in the door before we start talking to them!
• Acknowledge your man for the way he has handled everything and anything... be it a problem at work, taking the kids somewhere, changing a light bulb...and even the very little things like bringing some shopping in or booking a great restaurant.
• You being happy! Yes believe it or not HE is happy if you are.... unconsciouly he feels responsible even if he isn't... and the reverse applies, if you are unhappy he feels responsible too.
• Caring for his individual whims.. Tony loves a tidy house, now that doesn't mean I have to do everything around the house, it just means that if I tidy up he loves it...men are that simple to please... so think about it... what could you do right now that he would love? maybe its a foot massage or his favourite meal tonight or some more peace and quiet whilst the football is on!
• Being interested in his interests...this could be his work challenges, his golf game, his exercise routine, his political view, his mothers illness or his profits spreadsheet etc etc..AND this looks like Asking Him Questions and really listening, not giving him advice!!

I guarantee if you do this he will feel fantastic and will resume (or start) to give you the kind of attention you want...

Let me know how it all goes....

Nicki Vee x

Your Blog Coach

P.S. Need someone to chat to about your particular man? Need someone to help you decide whether this is the man for you or is this the relationship to stay in? Write to me and I'll recommend a fantastic coach...on tnv@tonyandnickivee.com

What’s More Important Your Woman or Your Work?

Lots of men ask me the question above and it’s a great question for men. It’s said and I agree, men are only able to focus on one thing at a time, often leaving themselves with the classic dilemma thinking it’s all either black or white.

What works massively well for me is to plan my work day and plan my woman day, in other words what am I going to do today that will move my vision, my purpose and my business forward in the direction I desire and get great results for my audience and customers and what can I do to make my woman’s day a special day for us and her. All this I see as my job and when I do it well I really do have it all, a feeling of fulfillment on the business front and a woman that loves me unconditionally. All I am doing is meeting my own needs as well as meeting her needs at a very high level.

Now this is easier than it sounds, yes I take her on surprise trips, last weekend it was a surprise trip to London to see her favorite show Mama Mia, then a great restaurant and hotel, this was a two day extravaganza of surprises. Yesterday it was lots of kisses and cuddles and telling her how beautiful she is (this is easy every day as well as free). Both will get your intimate relationship unbelievable results.

My moto is - Enjoy life for you both...

Tony Vee

PS. If you’re a man and you lack ideas and inspiration of what to do to make your life and your woman’s life magic and fun, feel free to ask me for help…
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Coaching Bought Up All Our Issues - Your Blog Coach x

I was coaching one of our 'high profile' clients today and it suddenly made me realise that everyone, whether man or woman, single or in a relationship - we all have the same issue and its getting us the same results...

What do I mean, well, it seems that all the results we get whether its arguments in a relationship or not attracting who we want to attract or even poor results in business or not losing weight it's all about what state we're in, what energy we exude, what signals we give out....

And when my client, a very capable and well known inspirational speaker, realised that her intimate relationship challenges and even her business profits were all being massively affected by her energy she made some great decisions about what she is intending to eat, drink and think going forward. She could also see the incredible affect that this could have on her children of course.

Coaching is just the best job in the world! Not just because as a coach you can help people get clarity, assist them in getting to the core of the issue, push them with love and guide them to make life changing decisions that they completely know they will follow through on... it also always teaches me something for me, something about life and something about our absolutely fabulous, natural but not always healthy human patterns of behaviour!!

So my quote for today, apologies not sure who said this, "if you want to get a life, get a coach"!

Love, Nicki Vee x

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P. S. If you want to ask either Tony or I a question, we will reply either on this blog or privately, whichever you prefer; I know that we are mainly known as 'Intimate Relationship Experts' but we are happy to answer questions on anything as ' Your Blog Coach!! (I've been called some things in my time....)

On The Edge - A Marriage Breaking Down!

Just had an amazing chat with a guy whose wife wants to end their long marriage, they have three children and he did not know the best way to handle it. Luckily he found his way to one of our coaches who put him onto us and he got his hands on our free stuff.

His wife on the other hand had counselling and felt that this was not helping her situation and in many ways was making it worse. Now if we had a ‘£’ for every time we heard that we would be rich!

Interestingly after watching our DVD’s he started to realise the patterns he was running that were not working with her, i.e. pleasing and accommodating, in effect giving up his power.

Having now adapted his behaviour towards his wife utilising our philosophy, things are starting to get better between them and he is moving things forward to the point where he is prepared to get them both to our Austrian Relationship Retreat so they can really start to get things sorted. Well done that man...

I was just talking to Nicki saying how sad it is that so many people give up and get divorced when clearly there is a way we can help them sort it all out!

Tony Vee

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Introduction

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